Women are unpredictable. Yes, they are. They can be emotional, irrational, and illogical. But they can also be loving, caring, and understanding. And men cannot live without them. Admit it! We men just cannot get enough of women. A woman needs a man by her side as well, which apparently leads to the life-long constitution we call marriage.
You have found the girl of your dreams and are all set to take the next big step in your relationship – marriage. But before you pop the question to the love of your life, it is important to know whether she is ready to say “I do” or not.
Guys, finding this out is not rocket science at all! When the girl is ready to be your wife, she will leave some hints around for you to pick up. So, here are some clear signs that you should look out for, before proposing to your girlfriend.
1. She Will Talk About the Future
Look out for all the future tenses in her statements. If your lady starts discussing her future plans with a ‘we’ rather than ‘I’, it cannot get any more obvious. She is now planning her every move keeping this relationship in mind. Is she talking about the kind of house she wants, the number of kids, family vacations or what would be the colour of the bedroom wall? Well, these are clear cut signs that she is ready for marriage!
2. She Begins the ‘Kids’ Talk
Kids are the most sensitive topic in any relationship. Even newlyweds and married couples have a hard time dealing with this. But, if your girlfriend talks about having kids or tells you that you will be a great dad, then it should be crystal clear that she wants to have babies with you. So, it is time to pop the question.
3.Parents Enter the Relationship
The day she says, “I would love to meet your parents” or “I want to introduce you to my dad,” just kneel down and ask for her hand! Bringing the parents into a relationship spells out that it is time to get serious. So, when a girl wants to meet your parents or wants you to meet her family, it is a code that she is all set to take the next big step in the relationship with you.
4.She Talks About Weddings
A wedding is a very special moment for any couple, especially for women. When your girl starts taking notes at the weddings she attends and starts talking about her wedding dress, well it means she is ready for a proposal. So, when she discusses the kind of dress she wants to wear on her big day or what kind of flowers she wants for the centre table, just understand that marriage is on her mind as well.
5.You Find Yourself Surrounded by Married Couples
Does your girl compliment the newlyweds by saying how beautiful they both look together, and muses over the idea that you two will also make a lovely couple? Well, it is a sign that she loves seeing her friends settle down and wants the same for herself. And, if she suddenly starts showing interest in hanging out with other married couples, it is your sign to just run for a ring!
6. You Become Her Center of Being!
Your girl wants to spend every moment of her life with you. She is showering endless affection and compliments on you. She wants to talk to you all the time, she wants to know where you are and what you are doing. Then, what are you still waiting for? If one fine day, she starts expressing her feelings about the relationship and sees you as the perfect husband material, then she has definitely been bitten by the marriage bug.
7. She Will Let You Know
If nothing else works for you, then just keep your eyes and ears wide open. Directly or indirectly, your girl will tell you when she is ready to tie the knot. You have to just read between the lines! When she utters words like, “I love spending time with you”, “I want to grow old with you”, or “I want to spend the rest of my life with you”, better get down on one knee to pop the question!
8. She Deliberately Drops a few of Her Belongings in Your House
She does this to see if you’ll complain and also this will go a long way to prove to her that no one else owns the home. It’s also a big sign that she wants to be the one.
My brother, please pop the question now!!!!